In most universities in China,it is common for four or six more students to live in the same dormitory room.Since the students come from all parts of the country,you and your roommates will have different lifestyles.Therefore,conflicts are likely to arise.What can you do to get along with your roommates and avoid conflicts?Here are two tips.
Firstly,you will try to become acquainted with your roommates,so you can be open and honest with them.The honesty is very important.You should talk to your roommates honestly about yourself on some personal topics,such as your habits,background,needs.When you open yourself up to your roommates,they will be certain to do the same thing.So,the next you should listen carefully and talk activity to clarify centain points.Only in this way can you understand and appreciate your roommates.
Secondly,you will try to confront the conflict when it rises.One day that your roommates don’t talk to you,or complain about you to their friends,you should realize at once that there is a conflict.At that time,you should hold a small meeting in your dormitory room and have all of your dormmates attend.Since all of you are familiar with each other,you should talk frankly and openly about your fellings on what was happened.Then,you can talk about what changes should be taken to solve the problems and set a plan of action.The key to successful corflict settlement is communication on an equal basis.
College life is the most memorable experience in one’s life.So,you should be tolerant and open to each other.Solve problems existing in the clormitory as soon as possiable so that you can have an unforgettable experience and make a lot of life-long friends.

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